Twenty-Fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time – Cycle B
Reflecting on James 3:16-4:3
If you’ve been feeling unusually at home with the readings lately it’s because we have been hearing the Letter of James. In some ways it’s a welcome relief to read a letter from the end of the first century that is so accessible to our contemporary western ears.
Where DO the wars and conflicts among us come from? Most of us aren’t in a position to send troops into war, but have we done everything we can to heal a decades-long rift in the family? And that begs a second question: Why ARE all these family enmities allowed to go on and on? Are we really going to have another Thanksgiving/Christmas season ahead where there will be separate dinners for separate families because siblings haven’t spoken to each other in years? At what point will grace be invited to the table?
It’s God’s amazing grace that allows us to submit to each other and truly listen to each other purely, peaceably, gently, compliantly, full of mercy and good fruits, without insincerity.
But we don’t work like that. Unless we’re in boot camp (or singing at the Met) we don’t think we should have to take any criticism or correction. We like all conversations to be easy, and our “true friends” to take our side even when we are wrong. A word of correction at the dinner table signals a polite silence and early departure. We can no longer be friends.
The years go by, and the broken families pile up, and September comes and we dread the holidays ahead. And the ancient Christian community to whom James writes whispers to us through the ages: get over it.
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Such a beautiful story, Kathy, capturing how the gulf of language can seemingly isolate or separate us, until we remember the underlying Story of redemption that makes us one in Christ. It is an important reminder to me. In my case, it is frequently a fascination with and love of language and rhetoric — one might say an intellectual pride — that keeps me from exploring the depths of my faith. I am rich in academic studies about history, language, theology, liturgy, and scripture. Sometimes I get diverted from a deeper reflection on the Word because I am so enamored of crafting a clever or beautiful turn of phrase. I forget sometimes that I am also surrounded by people who are rich in the experience of living their faith, who may not articulate their deep faith life in ways that appeal to my academic or poetic tastes, but whose faith experience is profound and overflowing in grace. I forget that I can and must connect on that level. And if I can’t access and share my own story in its most vital and foundational aspect, all my understanding and eloquence is for nothing, as St. Paul knew so well. God bless you for this reminder!