Seventh Sunday of Ordinary Time – Cycle A

19 February 2011

Reflecting on Matthew 5:38-48

He offered resistance to evil

You have to wonder about Jesus’ instruction to offer no resistance to one who is evil. What would have happened if Hitler had been killed during the war? Was it morally wrong for Claus von Stauffenberg (a Catholic) to enlist the aid of thousands of other Christians (including Lutheran pastor Dietrich Bonheoffer) in an assassination attempt in July of 1944?  Records show that none took their resolve to break the fifth commandment lightly.  All had considered the millions still to be killed in the war and were willing to face God with their decision.

But no, the briefcase bomb was accidentally shifted and Hitler wasn’t killed. The Nazis quickly rounded up almost 5,000 conspirators and murdered them over the remaining 10 months of the war.

And yet today we hear Jesus say Turn the other cheek.  Walk the extra mile.  Hand over your cloak as well. Is there any wisdom out there to help us read this passage?  Plenty.

Here’s an interesting take on the text from Scripture scholar Walter Wink, who has written extensively on this issue.  He suggests that Jesus is offering some ingenious examples of passive resistance.

If a Roman occupier forces you to carry his weapon one mile (the limit by Roman law), then carry it two and put him in the brink for breaking the law!  If he slaps you on the cheek (a sign of his authority over you) then turn your cheek to the other side, forcing him to use his fist, which is the sign of your equality with him.

If he takes your tunic (only allowable for the day, not the night) then give him your cloak as well!  Stand naked in front of him and humiliate him in front of the guys.

What do you think of this?  How do you interpret the passage, what do you think of the assassination attempt on Hitler’s life which was instigated by believing Christians, etc.  This is a great text for conversation this week!  Jump in.

Does this passage trouble you?


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15 Comments to “Seventh Sunday of Ordinary Time – Cycle A”

  1. This scripture is very hard to understand. I know that it also must be very hard on the military when they must kill to protect others.

  2. Walter Wink’s ideas of how to interpret Jesus’ passive resistance suggestions are just that–passive resistance. Using a briefcase bomb is hardly a passive resistance modality, but one I could embrace and would be willing to “face God” with. A general rule of ethics is “the end does not justify the means”. Some ethicists even say “the end NEVER justifies the means”. Then there is the “just war” ethical justification argument. Having recalled these, what do you read/think was Claus von Stauffenberg’s, a Catholic and Lutheran pastor Dietrich Bonheoffer’s ethical justification in an assassination attempt in July of 1944?

  3. Many years ago, shortly after Colorado passed the first “legal” abortion law, I was working in a hospital on the labor and delivery/nursery floor. A saline abortion had been performed and the baby was placed in stainless steel bowl and placed in the dirty utility room where the “products of delivery” were ground up in the garbage disposal. A nurse walking by heard a fain cry and realized that the “product” was alive. She rushed the “product” to the nursery where I was working at the time. Suddenly, the “product” became a tiny, tiny infant boy! At the time he was only 3 pounds (Very small in those days)To make a long story short…the doctor refused to see him, there was great discussion on what we could and could not do, the baby died and the real ethical question…should he get a toe tag?

    After viewing and participating in the 3 hours of that baby’s life, I was forced to question life down to its very basic elements. It took awhile, but in the end I realized what Jesus was saying in Matthew 5. Abortion (ALL), murder, capital punishment, eutheasia, and war have no justification! These ideas were challenged when I worked as a nurse in a prison, when friends died in Vietnam and people were masacred in Darfor.

    As usual, Jesus gave us the answer. It is forgiveness. He gave us Ghandi and Martin Luther King Jr. for witnesses to his ideals. He gave us a free will to choose and he taught and showed us how/to forgive. Will all of this help make me perfect? Not yet! I really don’t think I can be perfect yet. Forgiveness is a difficult virtue. I’m gonna keep on practicin’ though…Practice makes perfect!

  4. “Love your enemies and bless those who curse you” – – to this date, when I read parish bulletins, there are notices to pray for parishioners who died, for members who are sick, etc., etc., but not a single entry on praying for Al Qaeda, Bin Laden, Arab Dictators, etc. Silence is deafening.
    It marginalizes Jesus’ teaching as irrelevant. Our churches handle the directive as “homiletic hyperbole.” – – Cris

  5. I believe that Jesus displayed exactly what he meant in this passage when he asked his father to”forgive them for they know not what they do”. Jesus asks us daily to do the hard things for him. At the most basic level we need to take the hard road. It is easy to say I love you to people we know love us, but to be harassed by people, and still pray for them, that is following in our lords footsteps.
    Since the actual commandment is “Thou shalt not murder”, I chose to follow in my lords footsteps. You can murder a person figuratively, or literally, remember the tongue is one of the most vicious weapons on the planet. I, for myself, will work on my small world of infuence, and hope that I can make a difference that spreads like a ripple in a pond. One small action, addressing a larger mode.

  6. This is such a difficult scripture passage, with so very many layers… The part that always jumps out at me is,
    “that you may be children of your heavenly Father,
    for he makes his sun rise on the bad and the good,
    and causes rain to fall on the just and the unjust.” I am always moved by this, by the overwhelming love of God pouring forth toward all of us. And so I wonder, who will we meet in heaven? Hitler, Bonhoffer and 6 million Jews; Martin Luther King, James Earl Ray and men of the Ku Klux Klan; Gandhi and his assasin. We are all beloved children of a glorious and forgiving God. How do we make sense of that kind of love in our heads and our hearts?
    Jesus is the ultimate example of how to live, and suffer and die, in the most profound model of passive resistence in human history. He never challenged the authority of Rome or the Sanhedrin, he tried to show us a different way, a new way ~ “love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”
    As for the question regarding the Christian involvement in planning the assassination of Hitler, I just don’t know what I would have done if I had been given the opportunity to stop such madness. I have always held those courageous people up as incredible examples of how the Christian community was called to respond, as opposed to the Vatican, which just kept silent. Maybe the lesson lies not in the rightness or wrongness of that one decision, but rather in the acknowledgment that we are called to respond to those day-to-day injustices which ultimately lead to war, prejudice, poverty, discrimination, etc, etc, etc.
    As Anne said so beautifully, working in our small world of influence, one small action at a time, we can truly make a difference in the world.

  7. There’s something to be said for defending the innocent or those who cannot defend themselves. Hitler’s determined destruction of a people needed to be stopped. He was a charismatic leader who drew people to himself and had so many convinced of the rightness of what he was doing. Does one stand silent and passive in the face of such evil? It would have been wonderful if someone were able to capture Hitler and bring him to justice in a court of law, put him in prison for genocide and throw away the key. But that wasn’t about to happen. My ordinary method would not be murder or assassination, but what mother would not protect her child? What stronger person does not come to the defense of the weak? What righteous nation does not come to stand with another against an aggressor?
    Dietrich Bonheoffer has been a hero for me since the 80’s when I first encountered his life through a professor I had. He faced an enemy stronger than himself and in the end gave up his life. He didn’t just sit around and hope that someone else would fight the enemy. He recognized a personal responsibility to stand with those who were being attacked and annihilated. Would I conspire to assassinate? No. I don’t have the courage to face the consequences on any level. I truly believe that it was in prayer that Bonheoffer made his decision against a greater evil. I’m reminded of Judith who slew an enemy of her people, of God’s people, and of Esther who saved the Jews by finally informing Xerxes of the plot against her people. Joshua and David fought for God’s people by leading armies against other armies.
    The brutality directed toward Jesus shows us how it is possible to turn the other cheek, to stand silent when being condemned to death. Yes, it is the ideal. I also see Jesus as assertive, someone who would protect his sheep against the wolves, the children against anyone who would harm them. He stood quietly and comes across as showing passive resistance but he also was aggressive when it came to his Father’s house.

  8. Reflecting on Matthew 5:38-48 does trouble me in the sense that it depends on whose cheek gets smacked first…mine, that of a loved one or that of someone who deserves my defense. I didn’t get the feeling that Jesus was allowing us that latitude. I’m certain that in the latter two situations I would make certain the perpetrator wouldn’t be able to strike a second time, regardless of what it took to guarantee that.

    Your mention of Bonhoeffer got my attention because I’m currently reading Eric Metaxas’ book on his tragically shortened life and am about 150 pages into the 500+ pages. He is just starting to become concerned about the rise of Hitler and his Nazi hoodlums. How could anyone turn the other cheek to that brand of scum or to the warlords that dominated Japan and set the entire Pacific on flame?

    I was in my freshman year of high school when the Nazis over-ran Poland in short order. Our fortunes in the Pacific were just starting to brake their downward course when I graduated from high school. Within a week I was in a Navy uniform hoping to help further brighten those fortunes on both fronts. There were no heroic, noble aims there, just high school emotions spilling over. The angels sitting on my shoulder at the time determined I wouldn’t get to sea until after the fighting had ceased.

    As fate would continue to pull the strings, about six years later I was serving on the very ship where the WWll surrender was signed. The Navy recalled a large number of officers from the inactive reserve ranks to active duty during the Korean conflict. In my role as a fire control officer on the USS Missouri, making certain we were hitting the targets with our 5 inch and 16 inch guns was my primary job. Those targets were primarily inanimate, consisting of rail lines along the Korean coasts and military supply depots that could be reached by our guns.

    There was obvious unavoidable human injury and death involved but at the time we were concentrating on driving the Chinese off the Korean peninsula and to bring the North Koreans to their knees and out of the South Korean territory. We were very careful to keep our artillery barrages clear of obvious civilian habitation but the military personnel were of no concern. I don’t think the distinction we made in this respect would pass Jesus’ critical eye. Neither our Catholic nor Protestant chaplain made reference to that passage during our shipboard services…I had the greatest respect and admiration for both those gentlemen.

    To have lived up to his admonitions in that passage I would had to have pleaded as a conscientious objector as would every other person when the draft board came calling. I and most of the others didn’t wait for that call. It’s impossible to even visualize the turn history would have taken by turning the other cheek under the circumstances of the time. That scenario would make a very interesting story in the hands of a gifted writer such as Metaxas.

  9. Thank you all for pouring out your hearts in your comments. It’s moving to read the feeling each has offered.

    As for Walter Wink, he is wrong. If you read the tone implied in these actions, you will see them as completely inconsistent with the life of Jesus conveyed in the rest of the New Testament. Jesus is teaching humility.

    As for the assassination attempt this was a choice that brave men and women made in a terrible time in our history. And I will not judge it. Should we ask the same question of the few men who made the decision to drop 2 atomic bombs on Japan? We can never fully understand what any of these people faced.

  10. I agree with you, Chris, about Walter Wink’s interpretation…it sounds more like passive aggression. Jesus, when he had excruciating and humiliating things done to him, prayed in Luke, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” In his responses to torture and abuse, he didn’t have as motivation an intention to hurt back. It seemed like he just held the truth in his heart and that gave him quiet and strength.

  11. Love. “If Just to Be is a Blessing;Just too live is Holy.” Abraham Joshua Heschel. Love your nieghbor. Jesus taught us to love one another and he means for us to love those who wrong us, hurt us, betray us and abuse us. Life is simple but it is not easy. Each and everyone of us is faced with “trials and tribulations” and in these when we seek to allow Jesus Christ to guide us, direct us and teach us, we can face evil and resist it and be protected by God. With Jesus Christ We can face our truth and learn that the “truth shall set you free”…..it is all about trusting Jesus Christ and seeking his word to find meaning in our life and to go forth in action. WE all make choices. God knows our hearts and the causes and circumstances of our life…..he calls us to love one another…..its in knowing who we are in Christ Jesus that enables us to resist evil, to turn the other cheek, to hand over your cloak and walk the extra mile. Pas con Jesus Christ

  12. I have to wonder if the Roman occupier got the message that he was being humiliated and mocked. I keep seeing Gandhi in the movie rendition, and his followers walking against their occupiers, one by one being beaten down with clubs. It was a peaceful resistance but bloody just the same. Such courage on the part of the leadership and followers.
    But I have to agree, what would have happened during World War II if those brave people hadn’t fought and even done drastic things that their souls had to live with.

  13. Brother Mourning Dove

    The challenge you’ve given us is a good one. Bonhoeffer had corresponded with Gandhi and 99% personally agreed with him in regards to his philosophy of nonviolence, especially as it is rooted in the sermon on the mount. Our problem with Jesus’ preaching is we are looking for formulas that are universally applicable for conflictual situations. “Too bad, so sad” as our teens say. If we know anything about Jesus’ lifestyle, teaching and witness, it is that he was thoroughly nonviolent, but we balk at this by accepting “Just War Theory.” This theory was taken from Aquinas, who got it from Augustine, who got it from Ambrose, who got it from Cicero who got it from ancient Roman law. It is not based on scripture or revelation but the historical Catholic Church [hierarchy] bought into it, was accultureated into it. Mostly the “just war” ideal has been abused, misused and been misunderstood as a rationale for “less violent” behavior. It opens up a larger argument, too big to map out here. But I will offer that in this world as it is, we must decide whether we will wage peace or wage war and then pay the price to make your ethical ideals real in practice. I believe that Bonhoeffer was nonviolent in principle but was willing to face the radical exception. Most people have little clue as to the discipline with which he practiced his own nonviolence. I can only wonder what I would do and pray that I am not faced with such horrible alternatives. But maybe we are being faced with similar choices today.

  14. Jesus says, “Be perfect, as your Heavenly Father is perfect.” I don’t mean to contradict my earlier statement, but to add to it. When I first heard that verse, I couldn’t believe it; could it really be what He is asking? But in the whole of the Bible we are told that the Father is a forgiving God. I think this trait that I know about the Father helps me to read this verse in Matthew. I am supposed to look to God, Whom I am supposed to aspire towards, and try not to cross the line from forgiveness of self when I fail to making excuses….make sense?
    Something that someone wrote too struck me in the the heart. He wrote that he would never judge the decisions or actions of Bonhoeffer. How deeply I feel an agreement with that.
    Scripture has so many balancing truths…thou shalt not kill, but you are not to judge your neighbor, etc.
    I thank God that we are actually graced to ponder these truths and glimpse a little of Him in them.

  15. In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus Christ is telling us to not return evil with evil, injustice with injustice – but rather, to return evil and injustice with forgiveness and love. This is precisely what Jesus Christ did for us when he took our sins to the cross (he who was innocent), saying “Forgive them Father, they don’t know what they’re doing.”

    To forgive and to love in this way – to love the enemy, the one who persecutes us – is impossible for us to do with our own effort. It is only possible if we have the spirit of Christ dwelling in us. Only then can we fulfill the Sermon on the Mount, without effort, because we have the Holy Spirit dwelling in us.

    The spirit of Christ is a spirit that has overcome death – a spirit that has conquered death. This is a spirit that gives eternal life – that we do not die. It is this spirit that has allowed the martyrs of the Church to give their lives, going to their death singing and praising God, because they knew it was not they who were suffering and dying, but the victorious spirit of Christ dwelling in them.

    To follow Jesus Christ is to follow Him to Jerusalem, to be crucified for the salvation of the one who persecutes us. This is the way of the Servant of Yahweh (of Isaiah). This way of loving and dying is the mission of the Church – to save the world.

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Sixth Sunday of Ordinary Time – Cycle A

12 February 2011

Reflecting on Matthew 5: 17-37

The Gospel today is so refreshing because it’s so in-your-face about the way we try to squirm out of really living it.

You are the light of the world

Don’t show up with your offering if you’re still furious with your brother.  Don’t be slimy about your fantasy life with people not your spouse and still pretend that you are faithful. Don’t do mean and unethical things just because nobody is watching (really?) or because the law hasn’t noticed your tax evasions yet. Don’t do just enough to not get caught, love just enough to keep up appearances, swear on anybody’s dead body.  Truth is truth and a lie’s a lie, so just tell the truth for heaven’s sake.

Here’s how the believer behaves, says Jesus.  Do the hard and holy work of reconciliation. Be faithful in your private life, and oh how your light will shine in public. Let your actions spring from authentic love.  Don’t watch the clock.  Don’t ask if there’ll be a test on the material.  Do fulfill the Law by abounding in love.  In fact, just love, and then do what you will.

Think of the children whom you love fiercely, whom you want others to love and give the benefit of the doubt, to whom you hope the world will extend friendship and compassion. No half-teachers, half-friends, half-loves.  You know how you want them to be loved.  Now go, says Jesus, and love like that.

Whoosh!  Did you feel that?  It felt a lot like the fire of Sinai, carried like an Olympic torch by you, the light of the world.

Are there ways in which you are just putting in the time instead of actually investing in love?

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6 Comments to “Sixth Sunday of Ordinary Time – Cycle A”

  1. I have felt the calling to change my life since this summer, after reading “Mother Teresa’s Prescription” and Father Michael Scanlan’s book Baptized by Fire. Both books are a call to action. Very clearly Mother Teresa did not call on us to take up a sword, but to simply focus on those in need. What a simple thing, to look at someone else’s needs rather than ours! By doing so, we are looking at the gospel, loving the way Jesus taught us to love.

  2. When I first heard Matthew West’s song “The Motions” I sat and cried. It’s been a motivating force for me ever since. Kathy’s comments about half-friends, half-loves all the other halves in life brought me right back to that moment.
    Matthew sings,
    “I don’t wanna go through the motions
    I don’t wanna go one more day
    Without Your all consuming passion inside of me
    I don’t wanna spend my whole life asking
    What if I had given everything?
    Instead of going through the motions”
    What is it like to have the all consuming passion of God alive and active inside of me, in this community, in this world? What would it be like to go beyond the half-way mark in relationships, in service, in giving of myself? What would it be like to go the “extra mile,” instead of stopping short? Sometimes I think I do, but there are those other times….
    Years ago, a friend of mine asked me what I was passionate about and I didn’t know. It felt so sad to sit there wondering rather than have passion jump out at me. Since then, my attitude has changed to allow me to recognize what gives me goose bumps, what causes me to give it everything I have and am. Recognition seems to be part of the passion. Gratitude helps me grow in love and calls me to invest myself even more. I don’t want to just go through motions; I want to be fully present. I don’t want to let this moment in life to pass me by. I want to live it. I want to love the people who come into my life through every day experiences, through the prayer network, through the newspaper, through the cashier line at the grocery store, through the lanes of traffic on I-25. I want to love the people who are on the wayside or who stand in the margins, those who are poor and oppressed, lonely and weary. And not just half-way, but all the way. Because what would my life be like if I really did give everything to it?

  3. years ago, a priest lectured our high school class about “going all the way”. At the time, free love and everything else free ruled the world we knew. “Going all the way” described having sex with the person you loved. Giving all to a single individual that you wanted to be with forever!!! (Like ANYBODY really knew at age 17 who they really wanted/needed/loved/lusted/etc!)

    This very wise priest taught us all that “going all the way” wasn’t sleeping with that ultimate “soulmate” but waiting and following the Church’s rules about premarital sex and the sacrament of marriage.

    Fast forward some 40 years. We have all had “life” experiences. Some of listened to that priest, some of us didn’t. The lesson we take away from it is still the same. “GO ALL THE WAY!” Commit to God in our lives! Go all the way in your job, your family, your relationships, your passion, your hobbies, even your football team for Jesus wants us to LIVE! and one can only live if they open their heart, mind, body and soul to God/Love. P.S. Thanks God for the Green Bay Packers…just sayin’!

  4. All I know is that I am not there yet, “there” being the perfect gift of 100% love and dedication.
    BUT when I read the entries here of all my faith cyber friends, I feel the boost to move a little bit more each time. So, thank you everyone. – – Cris

  5. This is one of my favorite readings. I completely agree with “Truth is truth and a lie’s a lie, so just tell the truth for heaven’s sake.” I’ll just add that to me the verses on “yes meaning yes …” is about personal integrity and constancy of character. Dare to be a real person who is full of truth and radiates integrity.

  6. I don’t have anything to add to these beautiful reflections, but wanted to thank those who wrote for your rich, wise words. So much to think about.

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Fifth Sunday of Ordinary Time – Cycle A

4 February 2011

Reflecting on Matthew 5:13-16

Darkness. The ancients experienced it in ways we can’t imagine.  My friend Erin told me about a scary twenty minutes of her life in a blackout one evening while she was walking home from work in Oakland, California.  She was just a few blocks from her house when the street lights went dark.  (This, by the way, is the same city in which my cousin was murdered in daylight as she was getting off the city bus 18 years ago.)

All these years later, Erin remembers that penetrating darkness, how immediately she became uneasy, then jumpy, then terrified as she walked the dark neighborhood streets she knew so well.  The lights from an oncoming car brought a few seconds of clarity.  Of course! That scary figure up ahead is just the open gate to the neighbor’s yard! But then she was plunged into darkness again as the car sped away, and those familiar streets morphed into sinister hiding places for ugliness and evil.

Some people, as Thomas Merton said, are walking around shining like the sun.  Every encounter with them makes you feel warm and loved.  They are found everywhere, little rays of light adopting children from Haiti, helping gang members recover their lives, getting up at night with the sick baby, loving that troubled adolescent, joyfully teaching the grandchildren their prayers, sitting with the parent who has long forgotten their name, preaching the Gospel and sometimes using words to do it.

And here’s the best part about being the light of the world: Isaiah says that when you shall call, the Lord will answer.

Who are the people you know who bring light?

In memory of Patty Cronin, a light-bearer

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4 Comments to “Fifth Sunday of Ordinary Time – Cycle A”

  1. After spending time savoring last week’s wonderful reflections, I heard today’s gospel and readings in a whole new light. My guess is that all of us easily thought last week of half a dozen mortifying moments we’ve experienced; and I have no doubt that we can all think now of at least TWO dozen people who are bringers of light.

    But this gospel poses a more difficult question for me. Christ doesn’t say we will BECOME the salt of the earth or the light of the world. He says that we already ARE those things, just exactly as God has made us. Imagine that. With all our faults and weaknesses, with all that makes us small in our own estimation, Jesus can still look into our hearts and say that our lives — my life — can bring glory to God … if only I have the courage to live my truth. Setting my lamp on a stand to bring light to the whole house is NOT about making a show of virtue or trying for some unreachable standard of holiness. It is simply to know who I am, to love that self with patience and humility, to live authentically, and to recognize and enable that dignity in those around me.

    It seems to me that the opposite of being salt for the earth and light for the world is to fall into the trap of false humility, even more than not utilizing the gifts we have been given. So maybe the better question for me this week is to recognize where I bring light in some way to the lives that touch mine each day. To humbly thank God for my gifts. To praise God for working through me.

    So this week, I will hold Kathy’s wonderful reminder close to my heart: “God is God, and I am not.” But I will rejoice that God has chosen me to reflect his glory anyway. Because it is Jesus who tells us this is so.

  2. Kathy,
    Who is Patty Cronin?
    Cris

  3. Thank you, Cris. Yes, Patty was my extremely kind, gentle cousin. She was shot in the back while running from an assailant just after she had gotten off a city bus in Oakland. She dropped her purse immediately, but he killed her anyway.

    Patty loved Marianne Williamson, and was on her way to her class in A Course in Miracles. It gives me peace when I remember that she was running in the direction of God when she was killed.

    How nice of you to ask.

  4. Kathy,

    I am so sorry about your cousin. What an awful pain that is in your heart! I love the image you portray of her “running in the direction of God when she was killed.” Bless you for sharing this painful memory with us.

    On my way to perfect . . .

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Fourth Week of Ordinary Time – Cycle A

29 January 2011

Reflecting on Matthew 5:1-12a

I’ve experienced the blessing of being poor in spirit several times.  There was the day I sang a whole wedding Mass with the back of my skirt hooked on to my pantyhose.  Or the time I chose a lovely silk smock from the hanger at the hair salon, and as the stylist was putting my head in the water an exceptionally kind older woman touched me on the shoulder and said, “Honey, I think you’re wearing my blouse.”

I could do this all day.  My life is a series of horrible moments that have brought me this self-revelation: I am just faking it here.

And that’s the blessing.  The kingdom of God is just this: a deep and joyful awareness that God is God, and I’m not.  Scripture scholar Reginald Fuller said, after studying today’s reading from Zephaniah and the Gospel’s Beatitudes, “on the day of the Lord the only ground of security is humility.”  Not self-hate.  Not breast-beating.  Just the awareness that, at any moment, the world will see that We are just faking it here. But God upholds us and strengthens us.

Try to bring back an embarrassing experience.  Hold it.  Let it take your breath away again.  Bow your head under its terrible weight.  And now wrap it around you as a warm coat, a safeguard against the cold winds of assurance, arrogance, superiority, dominance.  And let the blessing warm you like a peppermint schnapps’ by the fire.  God is God and you aren’t.  Whew.  What a huge relief.   What a burden lifted.  What a blessing.

In what ways has a humbling experience blessed you?

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8 Comments to “Fourth Week of Ordinary Time – Cycle A”

  1. Well, Kathy, if you’re “just faking it here,” what hope is there for the rest of us?

    Rather than seeing it as “faking,” I prefer to believe that we are all just on the way — the same as the original 12 disciples. Look at the mistakes of St. Peter and gain courage and hope!

    Lately, when people ask me how I am, I’ve begun to reply, “On my way to perfect!” Aren’t we all supposed to be working toward that? Not that we are, by any means, but, as one of my favorite priests used to say, “perfect” means “on target.”

  2. Oh Kathy, my friend… You hit the nail on the head for me and my life. For me, the way to be closer to the Divine is through utter humility, which is sometimes utter humiliation. It’s really letting go of all the stuff I use to define myself and my life, trying to stand naked in front of God. And when I get a bit too confident that I’m in control, I am humbled by the world around me and reminded that I really don’t know very much at all. The mantra that helps me so very much is the one you quote (and which I learned from you!), “God is God and I’m not.” Wow! What a relief that is… I don’t have to be God, or like God, or aim for perfection. I get to just be me, in front of our Living God. And when things get too hard or scary, I close my eyes and humbly fall backwards into the arms of God ~ my Mother, my Father, my Everything.
    Thank you for sharing your humility and your light with all of us!

  3. A humbling experience? Let me count the ways, the times, and the blessings! I once ran over a friend’s foot while I was showing off my “perfect” parallel parking skills! God was with me then and continues to remind me that all of my joys and mistakes have his name and not mine on them. While I was the one running over the foot, God was teaching and watching and stregthening me for the many many mistakes to come.
    Faking it explains why I still have problems remembering that it is God and not me who should be taking the bows and the applause for the many wonderful things in my life. As for the mistakes…they give me courage to ask for God’s help thus realizing that is only through true humility that I can embrace God’s presence in my life…

  4. Karen,

    We will all be perfect someday in heaven. While we’re here, we are responsible for being headed in that direction to the best of our ability. That’s what I meant about “being on target.”

  5. I am about as graceful as a bull in a china shop! To share my many mishaps would like watching the really old slap stick shows. I learned long ago that if we take ourselves too suriously we cry a lot. What comforts me is that no matter the way the moment make our mistakes look huge, the sun will rise on another day and all will forget in time. And in time when we remember we may even laugh! God is a God of freedom, we have free will, He forces nothing on us and He opens our eyes to our imperfections so that we might remember and have compassion on one and another. I am perfectly imperfect and He loves me as He watches my struggles and blunders.

  6. Okay everybody, you’ve probably already guessed. Yes, OF COURSE I was the hapless kid standing in the street a week before high school graduation, looking the other way while Mame ran over my foot in front of everybody.

    Add that one to the list. And Mame, I’ve long ago forgiven you and I’m so glad you’ve joined our conversatio. You have riches to share.

    Kathy

  7. Kathy, you’ve started a powerful discussion. What a great way to talk about the blessings of humility. Thank you, Everyone, for the profound insights.
    I’ve been writing a lot about losing my job. It happened without any warning so I spent what seems like forever grieving. It was a humiliating experience especially when some people interpreted what happened as my being fired. For financial reasons, the position was terminated which puts a different slant on it. Still, I was out of work and feeling miserable with low self-esteem and a loss of self-worth. The longer I was unemployed, the more often someone asked me if I found a job, the more humiliated I felt.
    I have to say that for me there is a difference between humiliation and humility. The former seems to be something that happens to me from the outside. The latter is an interior disposition, an acceptance of what is true. When I changed my response to “I’m between jobs,” I felt humility rather than humiliation. It was an inner experience that allowed me to face the truth of what was.
    Now I’m employed, but being new to the job means there’s a learning curve and I make plenty of mistakes. Being a “perfectionist” I have to accept the fact that I will learn. When someone calls attention to one of my errors, I make it a point to say thank you. This is humility, accepting my gifts and limitations. The experience of losing a job and being unemployed as well as working in a position where my best gifts and talents aren’t used, teaches me both gratitude and humility, which I believe are linked. Humility teaches me that I cannot do any of this myself. It shows me how easily I can become too proud of the things I do or am able to achieve. It’s very freeing to recognize how powerful God is and how dependence on God’s providence partnered with my cooperation, leads me to the fullness of life.
    I can remember thinking that my position was secure. “This can never happen to me because I am needed.” Well, I’ve learned that I am not indispensable and that God sometimes takes us from our “good work” to teach us that we are community, dependent on God and interdependent on each other. It hurts but there is also healing in the process. The blessing is in the gift of work, the acceptance of who I am and a grateful attitude.

  8. Yes, I have been “in between jobs” and it’s a great lesson to see the “other side.” To earn the minimum wage, to work with ex-convicts, to be supervised by high school graduates, to make errors on the dispatching machine, to negotiate with cut-down working hours, etc. etc….It’s good to be with that side of humanity. – – Cris

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Third Sunday of Ordinary Time – Cycle A

22 January 2011

Reflecting on Matthew 4:12-23, I Corinthians 1:1-3

What would it be like to just leave it all behind?  Say, for example, that you and your brother were in your father’s fishing boat, mending the nets, and the Rabbi came close to your boat and called you each by your name?  What would it be like to just jump off the boat and go with him?

They left their nets behind

Or what if you were a tax collector for the Romans, counting two for them and one for you, and the Rabbi passed by your booth?  What would it be like to just walk away, with the chips still on the table?

Or what if you were in the middle of an argument with your kid, and you were right and she was wrong, and this was finally your chance to wipe that smirk off her face, and instead the Rabbi looked straight into your heart, and you just stopped, and held your tongue, and actually listened―actually heard her and put yourself into her world and her place of powerlessness?

Or what if somebody liked to talk about his candidates and his take on immigration reform, and instead of feeling your heart rate go up and your face getting red, instead of saying I’m for Obama! or I’m for Palin!, the Rabbi entered the room, and you saw and felt the fears and frustrations of your friend, and you walked away from the argument and walked into an actual, real friendship based on real listening and real hearing?

What if the Rabbi was walking toward you right now, calling your name?  My guess is that, if you’re reading this, he already has.

In what ways do you feel yourself bending to the will of the Rabbi?

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10 Comments to “Third Sunday of Ordinary Time – Cycle A”

  1. I HOPE THAT I WOULD KNOW THE VOICE AND HEED HIS CALL. MAY BE THAT’S WHY AFTER WE FALL WE GET RIGHT BACK UP AND FOLLOW THAT VOICE,A LITTLE WISER AND A LOT MORE HUMBLED. AND WITH A GOOD CONFESSION UNDER OR BELTS WE GO FORWAED. BUT THAT IS IF WE ARE TRYING TO HEAR THAT VOICE AT ALL. BUT WE OR I MEAN MANY OF US ARE LITTLE MULES. WE PULL BACK AND REFUSE TO GIVE IN TO THE CALL OF THE LORD’S WILL. UNTIL WE FALL SO HARD AND FAR THAT WE ARE LOST, AND THEN THE ONLY VOICE WE CAN HEAR IS HIS. WE LEARN THAT IF WE DON’T BEND WE BRAKE. AT LEAST THAT HAS BEEN MY EXPERINCE

  2. I think the most important message this week is in St. Paul’s letter to the Corinthians. We must belong to Jesus. We need to ignore anything that takes us away from Jesus, including any devotions we have to saints and even the Blessed Mother. If these devotions don’t lead us to Jesus, they are merely distractions. Focus, always, on the message of Jesus Christ and live accordingly. It’s simple. It’s just not easy.

  3. It would take a special person to leave all behind and follow a complete stranger.
    But with Our Lord’s guiding hand and “Trust in the Lord” as we now know it at least it may be tolerable.

    Personally, I would have a difficult time doing this. The Lord woud be calling with many graces!

    Tony Cenedella – Highlands Ranch, CO

  4. For me there is no argument about the fact of the call and the origin of the call. The call however goes through “interpretation” and at times the various interpretations are enriching and at other times in a tension with one another, even conflicting.I experienced this yesterday while attending a workshop on “Who Speaks for Islam?” I noted one gentleman who came and tried to demonize all Muslims and yet in speaking to him before the workshop, he was sincerely doing various ministries in his parish. Did the Church of his youth socialize him into this?
    Does he see himself as following Jesus leaving the nets?
    – – Cris

  5. I have come to know Jesus, through his Mother, and have had a closer relationship with Him. I was called many years ago, I just didn’t listen. so when I started praying my Rosary, I answered the call. She knows what he likes better than I do. I have a few spirtual advisers,His Mother, all the Saints. thanks for letting us express ourselfs.

  6. I have been very blessed to have a faith filled daughter who will soon graduate from Franciscan University. We are also planning her wedding to a wonderful young man. Their hometowns are 1000 miles apart, and I would so like to have them choose HER hometown, where I live, for the beginning of their home. That is not happening, and I am certainly “bending toward the Rabbi”, to allow them to make the decision they hear from God, and to keep my silence and pray for the wisdom they have demonstrated thus far, and hear the voice of God guiding me as well.

  7. I have learned that when I don’t bend to the Lord’s will I brake. I just am a hard headed person and think I am strong enough to pratice my “free will” until I fall on my face, sometimes I fall so far and hard, the Lord’s call is all I hear. Which shows me His faithfulness to His people and His mercy to all.

  8. Someone at work said, “I like the shape of your earrings.” They were octagonal and I wore them occasionally when I was in the mood for “something different.” After hearing this week’s gospel, I’ve been thinking more and more of what it means to leave behind the things that seem important. So, I cleaned the earrings, wrapped them in a soft tissue and brought them to her. She was totally surprised. “Do you really mean it?” she asked when I told her they were hers.
    I’ve done this before when a woman came up to me in a drug store and said that she liked the metallic butterfly pin I was wearing. I took it off and gave it to her. She was shocked that a complete stranger would give her a gift. She put on the butterfly and glowed like the pin’s shiny surface.
    This is not my usual practice though it feels very freeing. The Rabbi seems to be telling me to “let go” and the last nine months have been exactly that, letting go of employment, salary, the use of my gifts and talents, a sense of security, people I enjoyed being around, physical flexibility, self-esteem. For me, bending to the will of the Rabbi means letting go with grace, putting everything into his hands, trusting him to lead.
    At 60 years old, I am preparing for that ultimate call. I’ve decided I don’t want extra baggage to make that trip. I’m trying to let go of resentment, bitterness, grudges, all the things that hold on to me. I want to leave all that “stuff” behind so that I can freely follow with more flexibility and bend to his will. I’m convinced it takes practice in the little things. Bend. Bend Bend. What I find so loving on the part of the Lord is that He may bend me a little but he does not break or crush me.

  9. I am struck by the beautiful consonance between the original occupation of Christ’s first four disciples and the mission to which He called them. Think about it: both sets of brothers worked in what was essentially a family business; they produced a basic staple of sustenance for their community; and every day’s production depended on a combination not only of effort but also providence. What better preparation could they have had?
    The question this raises for me is what Christ would find in MY daily work to serve as a foundation for discipleship if he appeared in the office tomorrow and invited me to drop everything to follow him. I spend my days worrying about things like server uptime, load balancing on the web servers, deadlines for development projects, and all things technical. Hmm. I don’t have an answer, but maybe my work this week is to reflect on this question more prayerfully and look for the hidden places in my daily life where my faith and the call to live the gospel can find expression. 

  10. Beautiful, MichaelCarlos, just beautiful! Thank you.

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2nd Sunday of Ordinary Time – Cycle A

17 January 2011

Reflecting on John 1: 29-34

In this first post-Christmas week it’s fun to think about the dates the Church has chosen to remember the conception and birth of both Jesus and Mary.  The Feast of the Annunciation is March 25th, so of course Jesus is born a perfect nine months later. Mary’s birthday of September 8th is a perfect nine months after her immaculate conception on December 8th.  Ah, yes.  Isn’t that how all pregnancies end, with a birth just exactly nine months later?

That I may decrease, and he may increase.

Since the real dates of these events are unknown, the Church used the opportunity to teach certain theologies.  One of the loveliest moments in the liturgical calendar is the feast of the birth of John the Baptist, that key New Testament figure whom the Gospel lingers over again today.  Since Mary visited Elizabeth when her cousin was six months pregnant and stayed three months until the birth (Luke 1:26-56), that puts the birth of John the Baptist (June 24th) right around the summer solstice.  So, as the days begin to decrease the great herald comes into the world―that I may decrease, and he may increase―and as the days begin to increase (December 25th) the Light to the nations is born.

I love it when scripture and the liturgical year kiss.

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5 Comments to “2nd Sunday of Ordinary Time – Cycle A”

  1. I am going to begin a new tradition, which I have been thinking about for a few years. Instead of celebrating my birthday, I plan to celebrate my conception day. After all, that’s when I first began to live! I have a friend who will turn 90 on November 18 this year. I plan to send her a Happy Conception Day card next month. Pregnancies may not be exactly timed from conception to birth, but what does that matter? I heard a long time ago that Japanese babies are considered one year old when they are born . . . so why not celebrate the beginning of our lives from conception?

  2. Kathy, your reflections make God’s sense of timing very energizing. In line with what you said about the kissing of liturgy and scripture, I am always excited when I hear the Word proclaimed during Mass and it seems I’ve never heard it before. Year after year, I’ve heard the message and then suddenly, I hear it for the first time. If this isn’t God’s timing, I don’t know what is. Suddenly I am ripe for the Word of God to penetrate and be alive in me, to pierce my soul and move me. Why didn’t it happen three years ago when the same readings were proclaimed, or when I read the text in preparation for liturgy? Suddenly, it is as if the entire universe focuses on one phrase or one story, and it becomes clear to me that God is speaking to me. The ears of my heart and soul perk up and pay attention in the here and now. My resolution for 2011 is one word, LISTEN, listen to God, to myself, to others and to the universe.
    The world suggests we make ourselves bigger, better, more, but John’s message, “that I may decrease, and he may increase,” is certainly a powerful attention getter. What a contradiction to the cultural message that infiltrates our every day. Other than losing weight, who wants to decrease? And yet, John reminds us to be who we are supposed to be, the one who points to the Light while standing in the shadow. Do I dare listen to John?

  3. A lovely vision, a kiss between scripture and the liturgical year. Thanks, Kathy. It had never occurred to me to celebrate a day of conception, but I always sent flowers to my mother on my birthday, to thank her for giving me life. That was more important to me than receiving flowers from others on that day. At first it was a rose for every year, but there came a time that was just too extravagant! Age requires changes in many things.

  4. Just to put a very contemporary spin on this thought: My daughter took advantage of her friend’s conception day to play a joke on her. She posted “Happy Conception Day” on her friend’s wall, and asked all the friends to Facebook the mom to thank her for bearing her friend for those nine months. It really was intended to be funny, but I LIKED the idea!

  5. Scripture and Liturgy kiss – – beautiful and profound.
    Happy Conception Day – – great idea!
    Critique of the culture which is obsessed with self-magnification – – keen observation and prudent warning.

    Thanks, everyone.

    Cris

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The Feast of the Baptism of the Lord – Cycle A

8 January 2011

Reflecting on Matthew 3: 13-17

 

We watched Him three years ago as he stood with the rest of the sinners, waiting to be dipped in the cold waters of the Jordan.  It was just the beginning of the dry season, so the river was full and running fast.  We had come out to see John, and to hear him preach about repentance.  He reminded us of Elijah, seeing him like that out in the desert with his garment of camel’s hair, raging against the very people who thought they were God’s favorites.

It’s the dry season again now.  John has been dead for awhile, beheaded by the king who didn’t like being called a sinner.  John knew the risks.

Come to think of it, Jesus was always with sinners.  When he was just a little boy he had visitors from the East who weren’t even Jewish.  He called his disciples from fishing boats instead of from the Temple.  He ate with tax collectors and even prostitutes.  And now he has been crucified, with a sinner on his right and on his left.

It’s as if he wanted us to know, from that very day of his baptism, that he is with us always, even as we stand in the cold waters and wait for redemption.

 

 

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11 Comments to “The Feast of the Baptism of the Lord – Cycle A”

  1. I subscribe to “Minute Meditations” from americancatholic.org. Today’s touched me, a beautiful statement of the balance between faith and humility. So, I want to share it with you all.

    “We must be humble enough to recognize that we are not the center of the universe, but faithful enough to know that God frequently acts as though we are.”
    — from A Franciscan Christmas

  2. Kathy, I love your articles in our Most Precious Blood bulletin. I cut them out and send them to my parents in Iowa. Thank you for sharing your inspiration.Love, Carol (Goodwin) Siegrist

  3. Thank You Chris for sharing that very wise meditation. You know it is at times like this I feel like a new born colt trying to stand up on shakey legs. I wish I were as faithful to my Baptismal vows as our Lord is with His mercy and forgiveness. There are some days that I mess up so well I’d have live in the Jordan River. I remember when I first came back I spent a lot of time tell God I didn’t have the faith to be a good Catholic. And He nudged me a little and said good, but know that I had His support I grew strength. Until my leg stp shaking.

  4. The story of Jesus’ baptism has always been one of my favorites…a reminder that he was and is among us. Thanks for putting us into the story in such a creative way.

    Steve

  5. …we are all sons and daughters…

  6. Listening carefully and always questioning for clarification are important graces.

    I take the Eucharist to assisted living facilities and feel selfish because I am privileged to be able to bring Jesus to these people. The appreciation they have humbles me in ways I couldn’t begin to explain.

    I like the idea, Chris, that sometimes God acts as if I am the center of the universe. Thanks for sharing that!

  7. I appreciate this lesson in Christ’s humility! He allowed his cousin, who knew exactly who He was, to baptize him, like all the others. And so his ministry began, as he demonstrates that he has chosen to endure what any of us could endure. He truly walked the walk!

  8. Activating the graces of baptism…in my case probably in the most subconscious fashion. Example: yesterday a friend asked me to compose a prayer service for grieving parents whose son, 31 years old, died in California and found 2 days later. Parents were too distraught to be present but we prayed as the baptized community in Christ. Later that evening, we gave the sorrowing parents a call…
    Cris

  9. One of my greatest Baptismal blessings activated by Jesus in my life, has been being a Catechist in the RCIA program in my parish. These people whom God has sent, searching for Him, they have been such a blessing to me.
    This journey of faith begun with the Waters of Baptism. God Carried me when I thought I was alone. He directed me to the Catholic Biblical School and blessed me with wonderful teachers!
    Thank you Jesus for the waters of my Baptism! Thank you for all the great teachers! Thank you for this column of sharing!

  10. I’m always thrilled to watch babies being baptized at Mass or to see the newly baptized at the Easter Vigil. The excitement is always about them and their families. I am happy to welcome them into the community and to congratulate those involved. Everyone is so proud, in a good way.
    It never fails to strike home for me that that though I was baptized when I was three weeks old, I have had many opportunities to say yes to this sacrament. When we have the renewal of baptismal vows at Mass, when I participate in Eucharist, whenever I say that I am a Catholic or a Christian, it’s like having someone tap me on the shoulder and ask me the very question that is part of this week’s reflection. How do I live as if I am a baptized person? How do I allow grace to be activated?
    Grace is God’s life. The truth is, grace is all around but I can be the biggest stumbling block, preventing it from happening standing as an obstacle to its flowing energy.
    On the way to work today I was listening to Christian radio which reminded me how important it is to live with intention and attention. For me, these attitudes are ways to activate grace. If I am living my life with intention, then I live as a disciple responding to the call of baptism. When I pay attention, I am aware of how God is moving in me and calling me to serve. It’s circular in its movement and perhaps even spiral as it moves deeper and deeper inside my soul, and then like rippling water, it reaches out. Intention and attention are transformative powers that allow me to say yes to the God who is ever present to me, to the person next to me who is a reflection of God, to the universe that invites me to participate in co-creation, and even yes to my need for forgiveness.

  11. Bobbie,

    Thanks for the image of “rippling water,” which I tend to forget, but which perfectly illustrates the graces of baptism. The ripples of grace that reach others from the graces in the waters of our baptism. I so appreciate this powerful reminder! You made my day!

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Solemnity of the Epiphany – Cycle A

1 January 2011

Reflecting on Isaiah 60:1-6.  Matthew 2:1-12

More and more, we found ourselves searching the skies.   For the past two years we felt drawn to this particular Star, this particular Light.  It called to us, even in the daylight, and at night it drew us to Itself so intensely that one night we just set out to follow It.

Adoration of the Wise Men - Murillo (1617-1682)

Its light never dimmed, and we felt its heat and healing so strongly that we were actually pulled into It ourselves, so that we shone with a Light we’d never known we possessed.

We arrived in Jerusalem and found ourselves in the land of the Jews, those ancient people we had heard so much about.  Where is your newborn King? we asked, for we too had been longing for him.  King Herod, that violent murderer whose evil deeds had also reached us in the east, summoned us and told us to look for Him in the tiny city of Bethlehem.  Bethlehem!  The very city where their great King David was born!  Then the Star appeared and led us to the very house where we found the tiny King and his mother.

We were radiant at what we saw; our hearts were throbbing and overflowing with joy.  We offered our gifts to the King who called us from a faraway land, from our loneliness and darkness, into His own wonderful light.

We’ve been different ever since.  Our sadness, our emptiness, our addictions, our resentments, our lack of hope for the world and for ourselves―all of that melted away when we found Him whom our hearts had sought.

We didn’t return to Herod.  We went home another way.  That’s what being transformed by the Light can do for you.

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  1. This is my year to travel a different path. To take a different road. The one thing I know for certain is that with the star as my guide, if I am willing to follow it, there is nothing but adventure and learning ahead for me.

  2. Just like any addiction, the addiction to be a people pleaser was/is a very strong addiction for me. Trying to win the approval from the more unpleasable people. Putting them before any moral or sane code of ethics,and even before God Himself. It is something I still struggle with, I’m better at it but it still shows up now and then. Learning to not value other’s opinion of me more then my Lord’s will for me. Living for Eternity not these few minutes on earth, not buying into the New-Age thinking that truth is subjective to each person’s belief. Learning and believeing there are places called Heaven and Hell. And findind an unbelieveable comfort in knowing the stability of God. He isn’t the wishy washy Being that I once believed He was. I hope this won’t offend anyone, but I think anyone who believed as I once did will relate.

  3. Places I left behind? The Philippines upon declaration of Martial Law of 1972, my wife and I fled leaving behind 250 wedding gifts from the marriage celebration 5 months earlier. To leave a country meant leaving behind family, friends, relatives, tropical climate, ethnic food, familiar symbolic sites, one’s native tongue, one’s routine, etc., etc., but if I had not left at the instigation of the Spirit, I would never have met you and all these cyber friends on top of the other friends from Virginia, Texas, Michigan, North Carolina, Colorado, etc…… – – Cris

  4. Nestled between Isaiah’s exuberant prophecy about the glory of Jerusalem and the beloved account of the Magi, today’s second reading sits there almost unnoticed, whispering Paul’s history-changing proclamation that the Gentiles (all peoples!) share in the promise made to the people of Israel. Jesus chose Paul to shatter the notion that there can be any “outsiders” when it comes to the offer of salvation through Christ’s death and resurrection.

    How does this relate to Kathy’s question? I think what I had to leave behind was the belief that any one person or institution owns the authoritative and exclusive right to interpret the revelation of Jesus or decide who can be saved. Each of us bears the burden — and privilege — of wrestling each day with how to live the gospel. We look to the church’s teaching and traditions and prayer to help us on our journey. We reflect on the holy Word of God. We look for models of holy living. But in the end, we look in our own hearts and listen for the stirring of the Spirit to guide our choices. And paradoxically, leaving behind the notion that there is only one authoritative interpretation has brought me back to a stronger love of the beautiful Catholic tradition in which I was formed.

    Like Anne, I pray for the courage to find where the star is leading me this year, and I pray for the strength to leave behind whatever new thing that path demands.

  5. I agree with MichaelCarlos that we “listen for the stirring of the Spirit to guide our choices,” but I have to add that we need to take the responsibility to learn church teaching and scripture, so that we recognize the Spirit’s guidance. St. Paul knew that the authentic teaching comes from Jesus. Not all people or institutions teach Christ’s complete message. Groups have dropped teachings with which they disagree and formulated their own teaching, which is incomplete once they drop the teaching of Christ.

    Take care not to leave behind an authentic teaching of Christ. We wouldn’t be good disciples, if we ignored parts of the message with which we disagree; rather, we should pray and listen to the Spirit to help us understand that with which we don’t agree.

  6. I don’t think we’re disagreeing here. My comments specifically reference an informed conscience, which is founded as I said on the church’s teaching, its constitutive prayer, the saints as models of holiness, and of course the primary source of the scripture. I don’t in any way propose that a subjective/personal conviction can stand without the support of all these sources of authority.

    But still I would maintain that no human institution, not even one established by Christ, can be free from the possibility of error. The Spirit continues to perfect our understanding throughout history. It is our responsibility, both individually and corporately in the churches, to discern that revelation. For me, that communal enterprise is found in the Catholic church, but others will follow Christ where his star has led them, and Paul’s message today reminds me that we don’t get to decide who is invited to salvation or what path He has chosen for them.

  7. I never thought I would choose to do it, but I’ve left behind black and white thinking. When I was younger everything was just that, black or white. Then I began to pray that I might be able to pay attention to shades of gray and learned that there are also shades of black and white. When the slightest light enters the blackness of night, it is no longer dark. Strike a match in a windowless room and you can see.
    Living in the “shades” teaches me compassion and inclusivity. When I lived in black and white, I was “always right.” Or at least I thought I was. Now I’m able to listen and embrace. For me, it’s a way of following Jesus that I couldn’t do before. Call it growing older, maturing, contemplating the experience as Mary did, meeting the newborn King as the magi did. For me, it welcomes the message of the Epiphany. Jesus came for all people, all creation.
    Where will it lead? I don’t know, but I’m open to the newness and the surprise. I am far more willing to live in the question now rather than insist I am secure by holding on to an answer. As I type this, the word parable keeps popping up. Questions, possibilities, hopes, dreams, challenges,… There’s more and I know that Jesus leads me to it because he himself is the Light.
    So there’s more to leave behind, my prejudice, my stubbornness, my insecurity, my doubts, my shame, my disbelief, my judgments, and my anger. Those are part of my darkness and a NEW LIGHT has come.

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The Nativity of the Lord – Cycle A

25 December 2010

Did you get everything you wanted for Christmas this year?  Because I’m sure I saw more presents for you, hidden under the tree and tucked away in secret places where you can find them at just the perfect time.

Here’s one addressed to you from “Heartfelt Compassion”.  This present will open itself for you.  You’ll feel your heart break open as you feel “’with passion” the daily struggle of a relative whose addiction has already strained the bonds of love in your family.  It’s okay.  Feel that tenderness and love for your broken relative once again.  It’s Christmas for them too, with all its promises of God with us.

This next gift goes with it, so open up “Kindness” too.  This is SUCH a perfect gift for you because it will keep surprising you all year!  Watch for that thoughtful stranger who says, “I can see that you’re in a hurry and just have a few things to buy.  Jump ahead of me.”  It will show up in the surprise letter of gratitude from an old friend, or the sweet gift of taking out the trash which your spouse does every single day without saying a word.  Or maybe it will be your adult child, who calls and says, “Remember how hard I fought to get you to let me hang out with my friends when I was fourteen?  I’ve never thanked you for holding your ground and keeping me safe.”

There are lots more presents, and they all have your name on them.  They are from Emmanuel, who promises to be with you in every struggle and every joy of the coming year.  Merry Christmas.

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I have come to light a fire on the earth; how I wish it were already burning (Lk.12:49).

15 Comments to “The Nativity of the Lord – Cycle A”

  1. KATHY MY FRIEND THIS IS SO WARM AND BEAUTIFUL. WHAT A GOLDEN HEART YOU HAVE. GOD BLESS YOU AND MERRY CHRISTMAS. I AM SICK AND CAN’T GO TO MASS TONIGHT OR TOMORROW AND I WAS DOWN AND THIS PICKED ME UP! LOVE YOU BIG,
    BECKY

  2. So many happy Christmas memories fill my heart tonight on Christmas Eve, but I cannot forget this: the hushed and darkened church before Midnight Mass when the choir sang those achingly familiar hymns; the bags of groceries for the food pantry piled around the nativity scene; seeing the white and gold vestments after a season of somber purple; the drowsy smiles of family and friends. And when I was old enough to pay attention to the prayers of the liturgy, my most cherished memory is waiting each year for that glorious Solemn Blessing as a sort of reward for staying awake: “When he came to us as man, the Son of God scattered the darkness of this world, and filled this holy night with his glory.” It felt so TRUE in the dark hours before dawn in that Colorado winter. Being there with my family in the parish I loved was sure proof of the nearness of God.

    And, of course, Kathy was there too with that heavenly, soaring voice that blessed the night. I will always associate her ministry — then and now — with another line from that night’s blessing: “May he fill you with joy and make you heralds of his gospel. Amen.” For surely her work on this site is nothing if not proclaiming the gospel, sharing the joy that is so alive in her.

  3. You are so correct, MichaelCarlos — I have been convinced for years that Kathy smiles in her sleep! What a great message, Kathy, and Merry Christmas! It is a gift in itself to be aware of all the “little” and even not so little kindnesses God provides for us through other people every day. I LOVED your examples. Becky, feel better soon. Sometimes, when I’m sick, I think it helps me appreciate all the times I’m NOT sick and am able to be where I want to be when I want to be there. A gift of life from God. It’s the greatest gift! Merry Christmas to all of you — the blessings on this website — who enrich my life every day.

  4. THANK YOU BREBIS, I HOPE THE ANTIBIOTICS KICK IN SOON. NOW THAT I READ THE QUESTION LET ME TRY THIS AGAIN. I LIKE MICHAEL’S REMEMBER THE BEAUTY OF THE MIDNIGHT MASS THE CHOIR LOFT FILLED WITH THE VOICES OF ANGELS, I’M SURE THEY HAD TO BE! KATHY UP FRONT THE DARK CHURCH AND THE SUDDEN HERALD OF THE NEW BORN KING, RAINING DOWN ON US. GOOSE BUMPS RAN FROM HEAD TO TOE EVER SINGLE YEAR. I WAS BLESSED TO BE IN ON THE PREPARATIONS THAT LED UP TO THOSE MOMENTS TOO, HOURS OF MAKING COPIES AT THE RECTORY AND WHATEVER I WAS ASKED TO DO JUST MADE IT MORE MEANINGFUL TO ME. FATHER WOULD ORDER PIZZA A PIECE ON THE RUN TO FUEL OUR AMBITION, PEOPLE RUNNING AND WORKING ALL CHRISTMAS EVE DAY FOR THAT MOST GRAND CELEBRATION OF THE OF GOD’S SON TAKING ON FLESH A GOD A MAN. OH YES KATHY YOU ARE IN SOME OF MY MOST WARM MEMORIES OF CHRISTMAS. AND MY FAVORITE SONG “MARY HAD A BABY” OF COURSE.

  5. UMM! THIS IS WHY I SHOULDN’T WRITE A COMMENT WHILE RUNNING A FEVER. SORRY EVERYONE!

  6. Kathy,

    Your words touched our hearts in a special way this Christmas.
    God bless you!

  7. Kathy,
    Thank you for all your reflections this past year, and ESPECIALLY the ones from the last four weeks. They just keep getting better and better. I will keep praying with each one of them individually, because they tug at a different part of my heart and encourage me to grow in different places of my life. Advent has come and gone, but we can always ask the Lord for more of His presence, and we can can always grow more to encourage Him, right?
    My favorite memory of God’s presence is once hearing a sermon about Jesus inviting Matthew to follow him, and later, eating at Matthew’s house. Something dawned on me, while I was hearing how important, even holy, in Jesus’ culture, eating with someone was. That when Jesus ate with “sinners” (which we all are), it meant something wondrous that I didn’t entirely understand. It then came to me that I could ask Jesus to eat with my son and his ex-wife, and it would help my grandson as well as them. Somehow I KNEW Jesus heard me when I asked. He WOULD eat with them together, a meal for their spirits, my grandson’s, and mine. I kept praying for it all week and longer, and thought of the table, the bread, etc. I knew Jesus was present to us. I knew the result was not mine to know, in the direct way something is known. But in the months to come, or years, I would possibly attribute something good to that with a question mark. The only thing I could know for sure is that Jesus DID HEAR my prayer and was surely answering. I don’t think I’ve been as certain about anything in my life.
    That’s my favorite memory of His presence.
    This is a belated wish for a wonderful Christmas season for Kathy and everyone who shares on the web site. Thanks to everyone for everything you write on here. I’m grateful for everyone’s thoughts and reflections, and the sharing of your hearts.

  8. Dear friends,

    I came down tonight to check on the site to make sure all of your comments had been posted, and now I find myself with a heart full of all the love that you have pointed straight in my direction.

    I began this website guessing (rightly) that the primary users would be graduates of the Denver Catholic Biblical School, who are experts at small-group sharing of the Scriptures. But I realize that the sacred liturgical feasts bring to the site those of us who share the same deathless DNA: a gut-deep love of the Prayer of the Church, the liturgical year, and the music which has owned us since our own First Noel.

    And so Becky and Gregory and Michael Carlos, my beloved friends who shared those most joyous years of my life in the 1980s at St. Rose of Lima Church in Denver, were among the many warm contributors this weekend. Thank you for your loving words to me tonight. You have placed more Kindness and Heartfelt Compassion under my tree than I can even absorb.

    And Bishop Evans! And John Dold! And Jack Loughran! And Mary Frances and Bill! And Helen and Chuck! And Vivian! And Lily! And how will I ever stop if I start re-membering?

    And thank you, every single one of the dozens of you who have reflected this year, and then taken the time to share with our hundreds of readers your own deep insights into the Scriptures we all love. Your contributions have been my Christmas presents from you every day all year.

    And thank you, wonderful Peg Williams, for creating and managing this beautiful website and making this long-held dream of mine come true every day. Peg, so many people ask me about the creative genius behind this website. Here she is, world. If you want to see her in action, go to http://www.hebconnect.com and watch how she connects people from Heritage Eagle Bend. She’s presently connecting many thousands of people in communities all over the U.S. with her chain of “connects”.

    And so, as we begin this Year of Matthew we ask ourselves if God is really with us. Here’s my answer: In every dream. In every star. In every silent night.

    Let’s keep watch together.
    Kathy

  9. Kathy,
    You have this special gift of always uncovering that which is essential.
    By doing so, you serve as a compass for us to look always to the True North.
    God bless you for being a source of grace for many of us.
    Cris

  10. Your reflections have been your Christmas gifts to me each week, Kathy; and your sunny smile that belies all the trial and sorrow that touches you; and your warmth and welcoming to all, at all times. I went to midnight mass this year with great anticipation, realizing that my advent and waiting had begun to move into the background almost as this 2010 Advent began. Christ was filling my heart, taking away the despair that had taken up residency there, and His coming was a truly physical experience. The joy of Christ’s coming again was indescribable: I am redeemed, again, just as unworthy as all the previous redemptions by the great love of Our Lord. I awoke Christmas morning full of peace and joy; and then the phone call came. My mother had died almost at the exact moment I had wakened. Sadness, yes. But, I rejoice that my mother, a woman full of life and laughter in years past, has been released from a crippled body and mind, to party again. And, she was called home in time to share in the jubilant celebration of Christ’s birth, to be able to dance again right there among all the angels and saints! Hallelujah! The gifts of friendship, love, compassion, kindness, support have been flowing into my life moment by moment these past two and a half days. And I am filled with gratitude, for God IS with me, and my mom is with me.

  11. Lee, all of the readers on this site send our warmest condolences to you on the death of your mom. How exactly perfect that she went to God on Christmas Day, and at the very same time you had wakened after a late night at Midnight Mass. Watch for miracles now as she, no longer confined by time and space, is able to intercede for you and help you. We will all watch with you.

  12. Dear Lee, my heart goes out to you at the death of your mom. I know the pain and grief of your loss and will hold you close in my heart.
    I had many gifts under the Christmas tree, blessings of health, of the joy of family and friends around my table to share a meal, sharing stories of holidays past, looking forward to a new year, many gifts of love and treasure. One of the best is the reuniting of friendship with my sister, estranged for nearly five years. Oh, the joy of the phone call a few weeks ago, the path of love and forgiveness, the looking forward to the future, a new year of the joining of our families again. The star is shining ahead for each of us. Kathy, you have shined your light on all of us, given us an opportunity to share, to continue on the path, not in the dark, but in the bright sun! I love you ~ Vivian

  13. Lee, I am sorry that you have to face this terrible grief of losing your mother. Kathy is correct, however, in that, if you pay attention, you will receive much consolation from friends AND your mother. Listen closely and never doubt the communion of saints, which is a remarkable grace from God!

  14. My heart goes out to you, Lee. Even though belief in Jesus gives us hope, it is still difficult to let go. My mom died several years ago at the beginning of December. She loved Christmas and all the decorations. While she was in the hospital, she kept asking me about my progress with decorating. Every year we put up the tree together and talked about all the ornaments, where they came from, what memories they held, how old they were. Since my mom’s death, whenever I put up the tree myself, I have a spiritual conversation with my mom.
    Years before, when my dad was sick with cancer that was not yet diagnosed, he pulled all his energy together to decorate because my mom had hurt her back and couldn’t. It was a labor of love and his last Christmas with us. I remember his courage in the midst of his physical suffering.
    A Polish tradition that is very important to me is breaking “oplatek” or the Christmas wafer on Christmas Eve. At a meatless meal with special foods, everyone gets a piece of the wafer. We go from person to person, breaking a piece of the other’s oplatek and wishing each other whatever comes from the heart. It’s an opportunity for well-wishing, giving of self, reconciliation, forgiveness and healing. Done in the midst of prayer, it always speaks to me of God’s presence. Because this has been a part of every one of my December 24th celebrations, Christmas wouldn’t feel right without this ritual.

  15. Kathy, thank you for all the wisdom that you share. I loved the idea of all those “other” kinds of gifts under the tree. I hope that you found what your heart and soul desire wrapped in beautiful paper and bows. What a different world it would be if we all engaged our kindness and compassion gifts this coming year. Blessings to you and all those you hold dear.

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Fourth Sunday of Advent – Cycle A

18 December 2010

Reflecting on Matthew 1:18-24

Do you know this old joke?

Johnny:  Mom, I get to play St. Joseph in the Christmas program!

Mom:    Go back and tell Sister you want a speaking part.

It’s true.  Joseph doesn’t utter a single word in any of the Gospels, and if it weren’t for Matthew, with his unique memory of St. Joseph’s saving role in the protection of Mary throughout her pregnancy―and  of the Mother and Child after the birth, with the dangerous flight into Egypt and eventual return― we wouldn’t know much about St. Joseph at all.

As early as the second century, writers began adding their own imaginative additions to the scant information given in the Gospels about both Mary and Joseph.

In those books we learn that Joseph was a widower with several children; hence the several occurrences of the New Testament phrase “the brothers and sisters of the Lord”.  (That’s one reason he is often drawn as an old man in Nativity scenes.)  In these stories, Mary lived in the Temple.  When she was fourteen all the unmarried men from the royal lineage of David were summoned so that her spouse could be chosen.   Calling on the prophecy from Isaiah that we heard last week―a branch shall come forth from the family of Jesse, a blossom shall bud from that tree―they all brought branches and extended them.  And sure enough!  The Holy Spirit descended on Joseph’s branch.

That’s why St. Joseph is often depicted in art as holding a branch with a blossom on the top.

Never mind that St. Jerome later said “phooey” to the stories by simply translating “brothers” as “cousins” and ending the need to create stories to line up with theology.  There’s something charming about it anyway.

Sharing God’s Word at Home:

What customs do you share about St. Joseph?

This column was written in my head while having a fascinating conversation with my friend and greatest teacher, Sr. Macrina Scott, OSF, who once again opened me up to the wideness and depth of our Catholic traditions, some of which made it into Scripture!

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I have come to light a fire on the earth; how I wish it were already burning (Lk.12:49).

12 Comments to “Fourth Sunday of Advent – Cycle A”

  1. As always…interesting. I didn’t know some of this…

    Have a wonderful, blessed Christmas.

    Steve

  2. Since only two of the Gospels have infancy narratives, it’s no wonder that we have so little information about St. Joseph. One of the customs to which I don’t subscribe is the “house seller” St. Joseph. I tried it once, and was severely admonished by my late pastor and good friend Father John D. McCormick (Father Mac), “get out there, dig up poor ol’ St. Joseph, clean him up and give him a place of honor in your home!” That was the end of that custom for me.

  3. LOL! brebis, that’s a great story. Made me laugh out loud! I can remember my mother telling me that custom. Had forgotten about it till you brought it back up. Thanks for the memory.

    Merry Christmas everyone!

  4. I really don’t know any thing other then the one Drebis shared. I was raised with a deep respect for Saint Joseph, my mom just loved him.It was from her I saw what great and heroic acts he did for us. I never thought of how by his taking Mary as his wife and by changing the course of his life and by saving their life, he let God work through him and the faith he had in God shows us that in the course of unbelievable or unlikely situations amazing things come to light. Merry Christmas!!!

  5. My wife and I buried the statue of St Joseph in trying to sell the house in Littleton to move to Dallas. When we finally sold the house, we accidentally decapitated the statue through mishandling. To this day, we stil laugh about this and ‘am sure, St Joseph is still giggling about this funny incident. – – Cris
    PS: Oh and the sequel is this: Guia tried to glue back the head and loaned the statue to another friend selling their house.

    Have a blessed Christmas, everyone!

  6. Kathy,

    Please accept my apologies for turning this into a comic conversation. I wasn’t thinking about that when I wrote my initial comment. As a convert, I just didn’t have any other customs about St. Joseph about which to write.

  7. YOU KNOW WHILE WE SHOW RESPECT FOR OUR RELIGIOUS ITEMS, WE NEED TO KEEP IN MIND THEY ARE MAN MADE AND MISHAPS DO HAPPEN. IN MY FAMILY WE HAVE BROKEN, CHIPPED AND LOST MANY TREASURED STATUES, ROSARIES AND SO ON.IT IS THIS THING WE CALL THE HUMAN CONDITION. MY GRANDMOTHER USE TO PUT A STATUE OF MARY IN THE WINDOW TO BRING GOOD WEATHER. I THINK WHAT WE ALWAYS QUESTION IS THAT FINE LINE BETWEEN FAITH AND SUPERSTITION. AND IT REALLY OKAY TO NERVOUSLY LAUGH AT THINGS WE EMBARRASSED ABOUT, IT’S A GREAT STRESS RELIEVER. SO BREBIS DON’T TAKE ON THE FEELING THAT WE AREN’T BEING UPRIGHT THIS WEEK, MAYBE WE ARE JUST CLEANSING OURSELVES OF GUILTY AND UNSURE FEELINGS.

  8. Well, the “bury a statue of St. Joseph” tradition seems to have a place with a lot of realtors, too. I’ve actually seen kits with a statue and prayers.
    When we moved to Colorado, we still hadn’t sold our house in New Jersey. A real estate lawyer completed the process for us, so Joseph is still buried out in that back yard, ready for the next sale of the house. However, 17 years ago we put a statue of him in the kitchen so that he could be honored in our new house. He’s still stands on that ledge.
    I know of a bursar (treasurer) of a religious community who always put money or fruit in front of Joseph’s statue. It was her way of reminding the saint that the sisters needed money. She was asking his help in providing the finances.
    Since Joseph is the patron of workers, I should have prayed to him for a job. It seems I could still do so in order to get a position that uses my gifts and talents, one that helps me make a decent living.
    Another tradition holds that Mary and Jesus were both at his bedside when Joseph was dying. He is the patron of a happy death. I hope to remember that in my final hours and ask him to bring his family to make that journey to heaven with me.

  9. I enjoy the image of Christ in the movie “The Passion of the Christ”, where Joseph is teaching him how to be a carpenter. That is one of two scenes that make me remember how human Christ was, that his father taught him an earthly skill and occupation!

  10. Great conversations about St. Joseph!
    I find myself praying to St. Joseph for all the foster fathers in our world who are trying to raise children with love and I ask St. Joseph to bless all men and fathers in our world. How we need models of holy men for our families today!
    Blessed Christmas to all!
    Donna

  11. As I have meditated on this week’s reflection by Kathy, I am aware of the many ways in which scripture teaches us compassion, acceptance, forgiveness and love. Joseph might not have been expected to protect Mary and Jesus considering the laws of his time. But, the Holy Spirit gave him the support he needed to do the loving thing. Jerome and others may have changed a word here and there to support their position, but the basic message always seems to come through.
    My sister and brother-in-law have been trying to sell their house in Minnesota so they could move back to Denver for five years. Poor Joseph remains on his head in the frozen tundra and the house is now off the market!
    (Being technologically challenged, this comment was accidently posted to the patience reflection this AM, and then copied and pasted to the appropriate page. Forgive the duplication!)
    Merry Christmas.

  12. I love St. Joseph! Perhaps because he is everything I’m not–silent, strong, un-judging. I remember a really powerful conversation a few years ago (I was reminded of it by clm1127’s comment about Joseph in the “Passion of the Christ”). My friend was talking about Joseph and said, “Who was it that first taught Jesus to say the Passover prayers? Where do you think he learned how to forgive the woman caught in adultery? Could it be that Joseph told the story of how he had had the option to expose Mary’s unexplainable pregnancy?” I love the idea that Jesus learned the words of Consecration at the Last Supper from Joseph and was able to send wagging tongues and hands filled with stones away because of the forgiveness and tolerance he learned from Joseph.

    On a more personal note–St. Joseph was one of the saints I asked to intercede for me to find my husband. Paul and I were married this past May 1st–the feast day of St. Joseph! He is a gift–Paul and St. Joseph! :O)

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