First Sunday of Advent – Cycle B

26 November 2011

Reflecting on Isaiah 63:16b-17, 19b; 64:2-7, Mark 13:33-37

Do you have a memory of the experience of feeling the presence of God in a moment so electric that it was as if God had “opened the heavens and come down, with the mountains quaking before him”?  Perhaps it was the birth of your child, or the recovery of a lost love, or a phone call from the exact person you were just thinking about.

We wait for Christ to come again in time, but we long for him to touch us in our own time, our own lives.  Think about those blessed moments of spine-tingling awareness that God is HERE, right now, opening doors that seemed closed, showing a way to reconciliation with those who were estranged, gently leading us through new insights and ancient, rock-solid creeds.

Imagine the servants, struggling to stay awake so they can greet the Master with a nice meal and warm hospitality when he returns.  I think Advent invites us to stay awake every day, to watch every day for the gentle presence of our Master who is already here.

What is your Advent practice of watching for Christ?

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5 Comments to “First Sunday of Advent – Cycle B”

  1. God bless the work-thanks

  2. barbarawatson825@comcast.net

    It was this teaching and understanding that brought me back to the church in 1980. My practice? Sitting in God’s presence.
    I second “God bless the work”. Thank you for your ongoing writing and sharing.

  3. A very dear friend of mine has been told that she has less than three months to live. As I spend time with her, I am so aware of how she was a person who helped me learn how to live justly, and now she is teaching me how to die gracefully. The other day, when I asked her how she was doing, really doing, she told me about things that were happening and then ended with “I’m at peace.” I keep asking myself, “What would I do, how would I feel/react if I were in her shoes?” I wonder if I would be at peace. I watch her let go of physical capacities, like balance and being able to walk with comfort. She’s lost appetite and energy. She was very active in the community and has definitely left a mark upon the hearts of many. How wonderful that she is able to keep her sense of humor. I watch this dying process and see Christ in her faith. This is my Advent practice, definitely different from any other year. Christ is coming to her in a new way, and because of my friend, I wait for Him to come to me.

  4. A new baby grandson was born to us yesterday and 1 hour
    later my mother passed away I am amazed by God’s
    SACRED TIMING we were waiting patiently for both and thank Him for His perfect love

  5. I have been struggling lately with a decision I had made over two years ago and was wondering why it brought me to where I am today. As I was reading “Give us this Day” I came upon 1 Peter 1:6-9, and found my answer. I had never really forgotten my religion but was estranged from my Catholic beliefs for a number of years thus searching out other religions and never really finding anything to satisfy me. When I moved here I started going back to the Catholic Church and I am now involved in a much stronger way then I ever was before. I know now that God needed me to come here to come back to him. I thank him everyday for being in my life.

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Solemnity of Christ the King – Cycle A

20 November 2011

Reflecting on Matthew 25:31-46

And so the year ends as it began.  Last Advent we began this year of Matthew by reading the account of the angel who appeared to St. Joseph in a dream, telling him that Mary had conceived a child through the Holy Spirit.  And this was to fulfill what the prophet Isaiah had spoken, that a virgin would conceive and bear a son, whose name would be Emmanuel, which means God with us.

And all year long Matthew told memories of Jesus that brought that truth home over and over again.  The poor in spirit, the peacemakers, those who mourn—God is with them!  Those who ask, and seek, and knock—God is with them!  Fishermen, and Canaanite women, and tax collectors who leave it all behind to follow Jesus—God is with them!  And even workers who come to the fields very late in day come to know that God is with them too.

And now, at the Final Judgment, the greatest of all secrets is revealed: He is not only with us, but He has become us. Through his Incarnation in us he has actually become one with us.  He has so embedded Himself with us that when others see us in our brokenness they are looking at Christ Himself.

Lord, when did we see You?  When we were sick and found comfort, unemployed and found work, at a dead end and found the way out, was that You? Ah.  So it was You all along, healing us through Your Body on earth and in heaven.  And behold, You are with us always, even unto the end of the age.

When did someone see you when you needed them to?

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  1. Whenever I read this Matthean passage 25, I think of anonymous Kingdom do-ers,…I think of Buddhists, Hindus, Muslims, etc. who are told by Christ that by virtue of their outreach to the poor, the label “Christian” is utterly relativized and is not an automatic ticket to entrance. – – Cris

  2. I apologize for the lack of clarity of my entry this week. By “anonymous Kingdom do-ers”, I am referring to all persons who reach out to the needy regardless of their religious affiliations or their lack of it – – this means Muslims, Hindus, etc. including atheists, agnostics, etc. who follow the promptings of the Spirit even without their knowing it. On account of this fact, the label “Christian” – a term not used by Our Lord in this passage, is relativized – -i.e. its value as a formal designation is superseded by the value of the good work itself. The example that came to mind was when I was hosted in Mexico by a family whose father was a pronounced atheist. He was a good man, very generous, was raising a number of children as good human beings. When this person dies, he’ll be shocked to hear the Lord saying “Come you that are blessed by my Father. Come and possess the kingdom which has been prepared for you ever since the creation of the world.”

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Thirty-third Sunday in Ordinary Time – Cycle A

13 November 2011

Reflecting on Matthew 25:14-30

 

Boy, it’s hard to hear the Gospel today and not applaud the third slave who was savvy enough to bury his one talent so at least he had that to give back to his master.  With pensions gone and 401Ks vanished and wise investments brought to ruin, who doesn’t wish they had buried their money in a field somewhere, ready to be dug up when times get tougher?

 

Parable of the talents (John Morgan, 1823-1886)

But I also root for the third slave because I think he suffers from a deep insecurity, or maybe an anxiety disorder, that keeps him from putting himself out there and taking a risk.  How many people do you know—or maybe it’s you—who are paralyzed in some place in their lives?  For so many people the daily struggle to just make eye contact, say hello, and make their way in our extroverted society is a challenge that leaves them exhausted by day’s end.

Or recall Vincent, whose immense brilliance compelled him to capture beauty in its thousands of manifestations on his canvasses.  But tortured by anxiety and self-doubt, he finally yielded to that starry night where his art could torture him no more.

It’s risky and painful to put yourself out there, but in the most important race of all it’s crucial that you show up. Today Jesus is urging us to take every risk, use every single opportunity to secure the Kingdom of Heaven.  Love, and more love will be given you.  Have faith, and more faith will take root in you.  Be rich in hope, and more hope will abound.  That’s the simple Math of the Kingdom of God.

In what ways does your daily investment in love pay great dividends?


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3 Comments to “Thirty-third Sunday in Ordinary Time – Cycle A”

  1. This weekend when I heard the gospel I latched on to the phrase “according to his ability.” And like you, Kathy, I connected with the third servant. I had to wonder what would have happened to him if he had lost the one talent that was given to him. Obviously that was the extent of the “talent” that his master thought he had. Maybe the servant just needed some extra training.
    Somebody at work asked me one day how come I wasn’t being trained in other areas. The people around me are all moving on but I guess it doesn’t appear that I have the “talent.” Yet! Of course, I know where my gifts lie but….
    So, on the way to work each day I pray that what I do praises God and makes the kingdom on earth a holier place. I make sure to say “good morning” to as many people as I meet. I smile as I notice people and offer a sense of gentleness. I try to lift people up, by remembering what they’ve told me about themselves and asking how they are with sincerity and true concern. I make every effort to be hospitable to the hearts of people. This is bigger than my job, my “one talent.” It’s about making Trinitarian Love real in a world that aches for something beyond what it chooses and what it knows.

  2. Thanks for a very inspirational site. I found your address in the Living Faith booklet after I read one of your reflections.

    Blessings on your ministry.

    Sr. Carolyn

  3. Bobbie, I so agree with you! Why can’t we just stay where we are needed and are good at what we do? I think today’s push to be always more is part of that “love of money” the Lord talks about. It’s not just love of money, but love of position, love of recognition, love of ambition, etc. that pushes us yet cripples us and causes us to lose our humanity, our ability to say hi, how are you doing to everyone we meet and mean it, our ability to really care about people instead of the bottom line. Stay the course and be who God wants/needs you to be. I, too, pray that I rise to the challenge and be what He needs me to be that day to advance the kingdom. Blessings!

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Thirty-second Sunday in Ordinary Time – Cycle A

5 November 2011

Reflecting on Matthew 25:1-13

We’re coming near to the end of the liturgical year, and boy can we feel it.  Paul warns about trumpets sounding and God’s voice resounding through archangels.  And then of course we have this parable of the ten virgins, all anxious for the (late) Bridegroom, but only five are prepared for His coming.  Yes, the end-of-the-world readings are screaming for our attention.

But I want to recall a scene in The Hiding Place, one of the most powerful books written about those who lived and died during the Holocaust.  Corrie ten Boom, her sister and their father had been hiding terrified Jews in a secret upstairs closet in Corrie’s room in Amsterdam.   Corrie, organized and thoughtful, had prepared a bag for herself, with aspirin, a change of clothes, and some small crackers to comfort her when she inevitably fell into the hands of the Nazis and was taken off to the camps.

But the night that the (always punctual) Germans showed up at her house, screaming and pounding and demanding entrance, those who were being hidden leapt into the secret room while Corrie threw her bag in front of the closet.

And when they dragged her away, already feverish with influenza, she left her bag behind.  She couldn’t take the chance that an errant piece of clothing was hanging outside the closet, a clue that would have ended in death for all who had sought safety with her.

And she saved them all. How?  By heroically sacrificing her own preparation for those who could never prepare.  And I’ll bet that, at the moment of her death decades later, the Bridegroom took her straight away into the Wedding Feast.

In what ways have you prepared to meet the Bridegroom?

In loving memory of Sr. Antonia Anthony, OSF, whose happy death on November 4th, surrounded by the Marycrest Franciscans and her family, helped an entire wing at Denver Health sense that the Bridegroom had come for her.

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  1. I love the Corrie tenBoom story…I especially like her quote, “Make God your steering wheel, not your spare tire!” I have prepared to meet the Bridegroom by examining my relationships and bad habits. Hopefully it is never too late to change, and so,I have done my best to determine what is weighing me down in life, and trying to shed it. I feel I have made some pretty good resolutions, and the newest one I am working on is to make a difference in the life of someone, in a good way for them! I am scouring volunteer opportunities and personal skills to see what would be a good match for me to make this contribution!

  2. I have an elderly Filipino friend who is a daily Communicant and has been for years. She told her younger sister that one day she was upset about something and was cussing in the dialect. Her sister started to laugh and asked, “Do you think God doesn’t understand, because you’re cussing in the dialect?”

    My language has needed cleaning up for awhile, and this reminded me that I wouldn’t say some of the stuff I say, if I remembered that God was listening and understands everything I say. When I meet the bridegroom, I hope to speak words that are clean and clear. This is what I am currently working to improve.

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Thirty-first Sunday in Ordinary Time – Cycle A

30 October 2011

Reflecting on Matthew 23: 1-12

Don’t you love people who do wonderful, holy things every day, out of the sight of the rest of us?  Every once in a while we might accidentally catch them doing good, and I think it’s important that we do.  How else can we be edified and inspired if we never know that they are companioning an elderly neighbor through his last months in hospice, or loving and comforting a mentally ill spouse, or singing and dancing with a beautiful child backstage for four hours before she walks down the runway with Ed McCaffrey in the Down Syndrome Fashion Show?

There’s really no other possible explanation for the heroic things that average people do every day except for this: they are in love.  They have let themselves fall deeply in love with Love, and out of that collision has come hospitals, schools, shelters, food banks, foundations, and the spouse who, less than a year after her own mother’s long goodbye, now helps care for her husband’s mother as she begins that same journey.

Parents are the most inspiring example I can think of, especially those with children who are, how to say this, challenging?  Love is patient and kind, believes all things and hopes all things. Is there anything more beautiful than parents who believe and hope and love their children through the awkwardness of adolescence?

Let’s take a second to just let all that goodness pour over us and into us and out from us. It’s hard to be inspired by the Pharisees, who put their good works on display.  How sad.  Because our true measure is who we are when no one’s looking.

What example can you give of someone who is heroic in silent, small ways?

For Fred,  Lynda, Delane, and Mary

who continue to inspire after all these years

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2 Comments to “Thirty-first Sunday in Ordinary Time – Cycle A”

  1. Fred Eyerman is one who is heroic in silent ways. He’s the person who comes to mind. – – Cris

  2. Those wonderful silent heroes who, as part of their daily lives, come into churches and perform tasks that the churches either cannot or will not hire people to do – such as resetting all the prayer candles, straightening out the books/envelopes in the pews, placing fresh flowers in front of Jesus or Mary, dusting the piano or organ, rearranging chairs/tables after a meeting – all those things that “magically” happen behind the scenes. May God bless them all!!

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Thirtieth Sunday in Ordinary Time – Cycle A

22 October 2011

Reflecting on Mathew 22: 34-40

The challenge today to love our neighbor as ourselves is, as one clever writer put it, “like sand in your swimsuit”.  You can squirm and wiggle and try to re-position yourself, but that sand isn’t letting go until you deal with it.

Moses, painting by Jusepe de Ribera 1591-1652

Do we have enough resources between us all to let others matter to us as much as they matter to themselves? I think so.  Let me tell you about the members of the St. Vincent de Paul Society, who’ve heard and seen it all and still dig deep within themselves to listen carefully and lovingly to those most in need of mercy.

Let me tell you about Portland researcher Dr. Brian Drucker.  Way back when he was in medical school he looked at chronic myelogenous leukemia and said, “I’m going to cure that”.  For twenty years he worked almost obsessively, even enduring the ridicule of his peers at a conference where he presented his approach to a cure.  But he let his patients matter to him as much as they mattered to themselves. And in 2001 Dr. Brian Drucker brought the chemotherapy drug Gleevec to market, the only true cancer breakthrough in our lifetimes.

Let me tell you about the Colorado Vincentian Volunteers, a group of twenty-somethings who give a year of service to children, teenagers and adults in Denver—precious human beings who long to matter to someone as much (or more, sometimes) as they matter to themselves.

Can you remember the times when you received that kind of love?  When someone really listened to your story and cared?  Really noticed your pain and helped take it away?  That’s what the laws of Moses, which Jesus is quoting in today’s Gospel, are demanding. 

 Or as Rabbi Hillel famously said,  “The whole Torah can be taught while standing on one leg: That which is despicable to you, do not do to your fellow.  This is the whole Torah, and the rest is commentary.  Go and learn it.”

In what ways have you mattered to someone as much as you matter to yourself?

In memory of Patty and Len Langenderfer.  Vincentian to the core, they simply noticed the needs of people whom they knew God had placed in their paths.  And nothing has been the same since.

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4 Comments to “Thirtieth Sunday in Ordinary Time – Cycle A”

  1. I think the question many of us need to ask ourself is do I love myself as God loves me? Not with lust or cheap behaviors. I see how some of us dress to go to Mass, so immodestly as one mighty dress to go to a singles bar there is no respect for God’s Mass and no self respect. And until we get a handle on what love is. May be the reading in John 13:34-35 would be a better way to treat our neighbors. “As I have loved you, so must you love one and another.”

  2. Verse 39 of this reading cannot be understood unless you go to its fundamental explanation which is Luke 10:37.

    The love of neigbor is routinely accepted by all religions in the world until it is un-earthed to mean “enemies” – -the greatest challenge among the many Christian directives – – Cris

  3. now there’s a question that gives me pause; and lengthy reflection on 72 years of life in which some form of this question has risen frequently. It’s always puzzled me about some attitudes toward love and forgiveness; maybe it’s something about my independence or just my personality, but at first I didn’t know that it was possible to identify anyone who had truly listened, and cared. There may have been a few, none that I felt were consistent. That may be a reflection on me, or only a reflection on the human condition. Thankfully, God has blessed me with the knowledge that He loves me with all my many flaws, and forgives my weaknesses and transgressions.

  4. as an addendum, it is a great reminder to allow myself to be present to others and listen with care. We do really need to be intentional in this practice on a daily basis, or even moment by moment.

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Twenty-ninth Sunday of Ordinary Time – Cycle A

17 October 2011

Reflecting on Matthew 22:15-21

The Tribute Coin (Reubens, c.1612)

Every once in a while Jesus says something very funny, and today’s Gospel gives us one of his best zingers.  Cultural historian John Pilch points out that when Jesus says “Show me the coin that pays the Temple tax” he’s setting a trap that the Pharisees and Herodians never see coming until they’ve fallen right into it.

Since the denarius used for paying taxes bore the image of the emperor Tiberius (and the inscription identified him as the son of the “divine Augustus”) even having this coin in one’s possession was shameful.  But somehow those ever-observant Pharisees had the coin right there.  Can’t you just see Jesus given them the “Oh, well isn’t THIS interesting” look?

So they must already have been a little cowed when he took the sacrilegious coin from them and asked them whose image and likeness it bore.  Caesar’s, of course.  And then I imagine him asking “And whose image and likeness do YOU bear?” God’s, of course.  So live in that freedom.

“The world may have our hands, but God has our hearts” (Abraham Heschel).

In what ways do you see the image of God in those around you?

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  1. Most of the people I encounter every day are trying so hard to prove something about themselves or to hide something else, it’s almost impossible to see God in them. The self-absorption of this culture obscures God.

    When I am privileged on Tuesday mornings to provide a Communion Service to the elderly in a local assisted living/nursing/hospice residence, I see God in all the faces there. These people are beyond needing to prove anything to anyone. They are what they are, and their faces reflect the image of God.

    Likewise, when I get to spend time with my grand-niece and grand-nephew, I see God reflected in their faces. They haven’t reached an age yet, although my grand-niece is quickly approaching, when they need to show the world that they are “somebody.” Their innocence and self-acceptance are so wonderful to observe.

    Too many people put on a persona rather than taking a risk of showing others who they are. It is difficult to find the person much less God in those folks.

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  2. there was a period of time in my spiritual growth when I purposely sought to see the God/Christ in others. My experience at that time made me realize that to see Christ in others, it was necessary to find the Christ in myself. This was probably one of the most difficult steps in the transformative process for me, but also one of the most rewarding as Christ has revealed himself to me through others at the most unexpected times, and in the most unexpected people and places. The most memorable was at a midnight mass years ago, when a woman next to me shared the sign of peace. I didn’t know her, but for some reason her face and hands reflected Christ to me like a lightening bolt. When I attempted to let her know about this experience after mass she had disappeared, and it is an experience that is stuck in my memory, and gratitude, all this time. Some experiences are more powerful than others, and maybe that’s the times when my awareness of my own Christ within is most acute. Women in prison, the homeless, the addicted and afflicted always reflect God’s presence for me, as well as many of my great friends.

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Twenty-eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time – Cycle A

9 October 2011

Reflecting on Philippians 4: 12-14, 19-20

It was Christ who carried you

I can do all things in Christ who strengthens me. How many times have you posted that on your refrigerator, recited it to yourself at the doctor’s office, or prayed it as you pushed yourself to swim that extra lap or run that extra mile?

I can do all things in Christ who strengthens me. How many times have you prayed that as you left your warm bed to tend to a crying child, or answer the call of an elderly neighbor, or get ready for another day of work that provides for your family and contributes to the good of society?

I can do all things in Christ who strengthens me. When you think back on times in your life when you were afraid, or powerless, or anxious, or sick, or in grief so deep you couldn’t breathe, can you now see that it was Christ who strengthened you, Christ who carried you, Christ who has never, never left you?

I can do all things in Christ who strengthens me, forever and ever, Amen.

What prayer do you hold in your heart and say throughout the day?

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  1. Not long before my brother passed away, one of my cousins sent me a bracelet called “God’s Heart.” She said that it reminded her of me when she saw it and sent it just because. The “G” and the “D” are the outside curves that form the heart around the “O.” I wish I could show you what it looks like but imagine the name God wrapped around my wrist over and over, with the point of one heart linked to the indentation in the next. In some ways wearing black for a year of mourning was a beautiful ritual because it allowed the very pure emotion of grief to exist and be honored. Since we’ve lost the custom of an exterior display, this bracelet reminds me that I am in the depths of grief even as it brings me healing. Each morning when I put it on, I remember that my brother is in God’s heart and so am I. All through the day, when I finger the bracelet I am so aware of that truth. Such is my prayer….

  2. My prayer is “The Lord let his face shine upon you.” This verse from Numbers is very multipurpose and fits so many different occasions and happenings. I think of a bright light shining as a reward, or to brighten up a situation, or to reach for. And to look and see that the light is the face of our own Savior, Jesus….wow! It makes everything worth it!

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Twenty-seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time

1 October 2011

Reflecting on  Philippians 4:6-9, Matthew 21:33-43

One of the greatest things about growing up in my family was that our house was the meeting place for all of our friends.  We were ground zero for every pick-up basketball game, every Friday night fish-sticks-and-macaroni- dinner for ten before going off to swim at Celebrity Lanes.  My parents (of blessed memory) had waited many years for their kids to arrive, and they loved having their house filled with our friends and all the Beatles records that came with them.

Recently, I’ve had the great joy of re-connecting with many of the friends who came in and out of our house all those years.  Many of them have said to me, “Remember how I used to roll my eyes and laugh at your dad’s lectures before I left the house?  He had so much to tell me, and I didn’t want to hear any of it.  I wish I could go back and follow the advice he gave me then.”

As time passes it all comes into clearer view:  it’s only love that lasts, not fads and adolescent arrogance, not the pseudo-wisdom of pop psychiatry or the allure of instant popularity on Facebook.  Whatever is true, or honorable, or just, or pure, or lovely, or gracious, or excellent, or worthy of praise−−think on these things.  St. Paul’s words jump off the page today as we remember the times in our lives when we have been changed by an encounter with real graciousness, real forgiveness, real purity, real truth.

The Owner of the Vineyard graciously planted those fruits within our walls at our baptism.  How are we doing with the harvest?

What gracious or lovely or honorable things do you like to “think on”?

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  1. Coming from a family of eleven children, our house was like grand central station when my siblings’ friends come and when my own friends gather. One time when my friends had some other commitments and had not been to the house on a given weekend, my Mom asked me if there had been a falling away between them and me. I was truly touched by her solicitousness for my friends.

  2. As I think about graciousness, I also think about the diversity of my family as we have all grown older. I have four brothers, and they live around the world. My oldest brother and his wife just stopped in to see me this weekend, from England. And as we talked of the rest of the family, I thought of how different we all are, and how that difference has influenced our offspring, now with a THIRD generation being born. And yet, we all come home, to where it all started, the farm in Nebraska. Sort of like our heavenly Father. Though we wander in some ways, we all feel that longing for home, and know when and where to find it, even if it is just a place in our heart!

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Twenty-sixth Sunday in Ordinary Times – Cycle A

24 September 2011

Reflecting on Matthew 21:28-32

Remember your mercies, Oh Lord

Wedding rehearsals are always filled with nervous questions:  What if I trip on my veil?  What if I forget my vows?  What if the photographer is late?

There is an antidote to all that anxiety:  make a mistake right off the bat and then enjoy the rest of the wedding.  Yes!  The flower girl had to be dragged down the aisle kicking and screaming!  Whew.  Now that the pressure for perfection is blown we can all relax.

At some point in our lives we finally see what everyone else has always known about us: we make mistakes.  It’s easy to be distracted from our own faults by observing the huge flaws of all of our friends, and when we run out of excuses watching them we can always turn to movie stars, international banking corporations and all those crooks in Washington.  Finally, we can depend on terrorists, serial killers and drug cartels to delay that inevitable, shocking moment of truth: we too have disappointed people and failed to love.  We too have promised to go into the vineyard, but never actually gone.

And it’s in that moment of discovery of our own sin that grace begins to settle in.  How great is the forgiveness others have offered to us more times than we knew!  Remember your mercies, oh Lord, and start with us.  Because we suddenly see how gracious you have been in overlooking and forgiving and lifting us up, over and over again.

And so, our cover blown, we can relax into God’s love, with the tax collectors and prostitutes who are speeding into the kingdom, full of sin, full of grace.

Are there people in your life with whom you can be totally yourself and still know that your are loved?


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I have come to light a fire on the earth; how I wish it were already burning (Lk.12:49).

2 Comments to “Twenty-sixth Sunday in Ordinary Times – Cycle A”

  1. I as a sinner am so glad that God allows us the freewill to change our minds and do the right thing. Even if it takes a hour, a day, a year or a life time. It’s good thing to because there are many times my conscience just had to do what was asked of me, when I really would rather do something else.

  2. Now that the pressure of perfection is blown, we can all relax. Thanks for this advice, Kathy.
    On another note: On several occasions, I had referred to this cyber-community that you have formed. I believe that
    a lot of the pressure is removed due to some shade of anonymity. Thanks again for the opportunity to be myself in this setting.

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